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The 7 Steps to Breaking Codependency For Good! | Terri Cole IG Live

Oct 18, 2024
Terri Cole, a psychotherapist and author of "Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High Functioning Codependency," joins the discussion to unpack the complexities of codependency. They delve into high functioning codependency, revealing how even successful individuals may struggle with self-neglect and emotional exhaustion. Terri shares strategies for honest communication and setting boundaries, while highlighting the importance of prioritizing personal needs. The conversation also touches on the detrimental effects of 'martyr syndrome' and encourages listeners to cultivate interdependent relationship dynamics.
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  • High functioning codependency often leads individuals to neglect their own needs in favor of over-functioning for others, resulting in emotional exhaustion.
  • Effective communication and self-reflection are essential tools for breaking codependent patterns and fostering healthier, interdependent relationships.

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Identifying High Functioning Codependency

High functioning codependency involves a person being excessively invested in the emotions and outcomes of others, often at the expense of their own well-being. Many individuals do not recognize this behavior as codependent because they feel strong and accomplished, which can create a false sense of security. For instance, a successful professional may go out of their way to ensure that colleagues' needs are met, even when it leads to personal exhaustion. Understanding the signs of high functioning codependency is crucial, as it lets individuals acknowledge unhealthy patterns that diminish their quality of life.

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