I Could Be Happy, If Only... w/ Arthur Brooks | Beyond the Forum
Sep 21, 2023
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Social scientist and happiness scholar Arthur Brooks discusses the journey towards happiness and his new book with Oprah Winfrey. They explore managing emotions for a happier life, the Clifton strengths assessment and Panas survey, embracing all emotions, the intersection of science and spirituality, and the work of becoming happier.
Happiness is a continuous journey towards becoming happier, not a feeling dependent on external circumstances.
Emotional self-management is crucial for happiness, and understanding the brain's processing of emotions can help in effectively managing negative emotions.
Deep dives
Happiness is not contingent on external factors
Happiness is not a feeling dependent on external circumstances, such as breakfast choices or arguments with loved ones. Instead, happiness is more tangible and is not a destination, but a continuous journey towards becoming happier.
The importance of emotional self-management
Emotional self-management is crucial for happiness. By understanding how the brain processes emotions and learning techniques to create space between emotions and reactions, individuals can effectively manage and cope with their negative emotions, fostering a greater sense of happiness and well-being.
The Panas survey and understanding emotional profiles
The Panas survey, which measures the intensity of positive and negative emotions, helps individuals gain a better understanding of their emotional profiles. These profiles, such as being a cheerleader with intense positive emotions and weak negative emotions, provide insight into individual strengths and weaknesses, aiding in self-improvement and building better relationships.
The integration of faith and philosophy in the pursuit of happiness
Faith, philosophy, and spirituality play important roles in the pursuit of happiness. They offer valuable perspectives, pose meaningful questions, and provide a sense of purpose and deeper understanding. Incorporating faith and philosophy into one's happiness journey can lead to greater peace, perspective, and a flourishing life.
Today’s guest has some unexpected news for you: being happy isn’t possible. Instead, he says, work towards being happy-er.
You'll hear today from social scientist, happiness scholar, and best-selling author Arthur Brooks (Harvard). We talk with Arthur about this journey towards happier-ness and discuss his new book with Oprah Winfrey called Build the Life You Want: The Art and Science of Getting Happier. If you struggle with turning negative emotions into positive ones, if you're curious about the science behind the promises and claims of happiness scholarship, or if you simply want to live a happier life (and wonder if faith is a part of that), then this episode is for you.