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The Lost Art of Grieving: Grief as Ritual, Resistance, and Resilience with Francis Weller

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Mar 12, 2025
In this engaging discussion, psychotherapist and author Francis Weller explores the often-ignored topic of grief and its critical place in our lives. He highlights how Western individualism hinders genuine connections and emotional healing. Weller introduces the 'five gates of grief,' advocating for communal rituals that help us process loss and strengthen community bonds. The conversation emphasizes that embracing grief can paradoxically lead to greater love and joy, ultimately fostering resilience both individually and collectively.
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ANECDOTE

Francis' Early Life

  • Francis Weller's childhood ended abruptly when his father had a stroke.
  • This, along with other family struggles and deaths, instilled a sense of melancholy in his youth.
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Defining Grief

  • Grief is the heart and soul's natural response to loss of any kind.
  • It's a process of descent, sharing the same root as "grave" and "gravity".
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Individualism and Grief

  • Cultures focused on individualism struggle with grief due to pressure to appear strong.
  • This contrasts with community-based cultures where grief is shared and processed openly.
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