
Dream Out Loud 353. The Truth About Why Men & Women Cheat - Dr Robert Glover
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Nov 4, 2025 Dr. Robert Glover, a renowned psychotherapist and the author of 'No More Mr. Nice Guy', dives deep into modern dating dynamics and the psychology behind cheating. He discusses how the 'Nice Guy Syndrome' stems from toxic shame and the quest for approval. Robert critiques the evolving nature of relationships and the impact of technology on our connections. He emphasizes self-mastery and building a fulfilling life as essential for attracting healthy partnerships, alongside sharing insights on intimacy and relationship patterns.
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Root Of 'Nice Guy' Behavior
- Nice Guy Syndrome starts from early toxic shame: a child believes "I'm not good enough."
- Men then become chameleons, seeking approval and hiding true needs to avoid rejection.
Stop Chasing External Validation
- Notice when achievements never satisfy you; that's a sign you're chasing external validation.
- Prioritize internal satisfaction: celebrate accomplishments and feel proud regardless of others' approval.
Enjoy Achievements Before Chasing More
- Be present and enjoy accomplishments instead of immediately sprinting to the next goal.
- Use short-term goals for momentum, but avoid letting goals define your self-worth.












