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2110: Why Parents of Young Adults Should Do Their Own Report Card by Dr. Jack Stoltzfus of Parents Letting Go

Mar 22, 2024
08:52
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Learn why parents of young adults should assess their own actions and decisions. Focus on what you can control, avoid being overly invested, and create a parental report card. Reflect on behaviors aligned with love, independence, and self-care. Embrace self-evaluation, growth, and seeking support in parenting young adults.
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Quick takeaways

  • Focus on personal growth and self-assessment as parents of young adults.
  • Avoid overinvestment in children's success, prioritize unconditional love, and support independence.

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The Importance of Doing Your Own Parental Report Card

Parents of young adults should focus on assessing their own actions and decisions instead of solely relying on their children's reactions for validation. Overinvestment in their children's success and happiness can lead to a sense of failure. Parents need to recognize that they cannot control their adult children's actions or emotions and should prioritize actions within their control, such as practicing unconditional love and focusing on personal growth.

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