All the Hacks: Money, Points & Life Think Faster, Talk Smarter and Excel at Spontaneous Conversation with Matt Abrahams
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Oct 25, 2023 
In this engaging discussion, guest Matt Abrahams, a Stanford professor and communication expert, shares his invaluable insights on spontaneous conversation. He outlines a six-step process to enhance speaking skills, tackling anxiety and structuring small talk. With practical techniques for better public speaking, he emphasizes prioritizing audience connection over perfection. From mastering the art of listening to using humor effectively, Abrahams equips listeners with strategies to excel in any conversation, even delivering an unforgettable wedding toast!
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Mindset for Spontaneous Speaking
- Manage speaking anxiety, let go of perfectionism, and view speaking opportunities as chances to connect.
- Listen actively to understand the other person's message.
Managing Speaking Anxiety
- Manage anxiety by addressing both physical symptoms (e.g., deep breaths, cooling down) and mental sources (e.g., focusing on value).
- Create a personalized anxiety management plan, as triggers vary by individual.
Connection Over Perfection
- Striving for perfection hinders performance due to reduced cognitive bandwidth.
- Focus on connecting with your audience, understanding their needs, and conveying relevant information.
