

Former Secret Service Agent Reveals How To Read ANYONE To Know Who You Can Really Trust
109 snips Apr 28, 2025
Evy Poumpouras, a former Secret Service agent and author of "Becoming Bulletproof," shares her expertise on human behavior. She reveals how to read people and discern trustworthiness, drawing from her experiences during 9/11 and a life-threatening childbirth. Evy discusses the importance of a neutrality mindset for emotional resilience and reveals techniques for de-escalating conflicts. She emphasizes the power of empathy, active listening, and non-judgmental inquiry in navigating relationships, highlighting how these skills can transform our everyday interactions.
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Silence Reveals True Intentions
- Ask questions and then go quiet to let people reveal themselves to you.
- Talking too much prevents you from accurately reading who is trustworthy and reliable.
Avoid Comparing Yourself to Others
- Avoid comparing yourself to others to preserve your creative authenticity.
- Focus on your own path and let others inspire you without copying them.
Tough NYPD Training Experience
- In NYPD training, Evy faced intense physical challenges and harsh instructors who encouraged quitters to leave.
- They made her feel weak but taught her to endure and not let them win.