The School of Greatness

Former Secret Service Agent Reveals How To Read ANYONE To Know Who You Can Really Trust

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Apr 28, 2025
Evy Poumpouras, a former Secret Service agent and author of "Becoming Bulletproof," shares her expertise on human behavior. She reveals how to read people and discern trustworthiness, drawing from her experiences during 9/11 and a life-threatening childbirth. Evy discusses the importance of a neutrality mindset for emotional resilience and reveals techniques for de-escalating conflicts. She emphasizes the power of empathy, active listening, and non-judgmental inquiry in navigating relationships, highlighting how these skills can transform our everyday interactions.
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ADVICE

Silence Reveals True Intentions

  • Ask questions and then go quiet to let people reveal themselves to you.
  • Talking too much prevents you from accurately reading who is trustworthy and reliable.
ADVICE

Avoid Comparing Yourself to Others

  • Avoid comparing yourself to others to preserve your creative authenticity.
  • Focus on your own path and let others inspire you without copying them.
ANECDOTE

Tough NYPD Training Experience

  • In NYPD training, Evy faced intense physical challenges and harsh instructors who encouraged quitters to leave.
  • They made her feel weak but taught her to endure and not let them win.
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