Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 543 - My Metamour Refuses to Meet Me: Listener Q&A
Aug 19, 2025
Explore the quirky world of metamour dynamics in non-monogamous relationships. Learn how open communication can ease the tension when one partner hesitates to meet another. The hosts share personal stories and humorous insights, highlighting the importance of mutual enthusiasm and respect. Discover practical tips for fostering positive interactions and navigating emotional challenges. Plus, get clever advice on creating a harmonious home and wardrobe to enhance your lifestyle!
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Knowing Boosts Compersion
- Positive feelings toward a metamor rise when you like them and know more about their relationship with your partner.
- Sharon Flicker's research links knowing and closeness to higher compersion across emotional and sexual subtypes.
Fix The Hinge First
- Communicate directly and honestly with your shared partner about repairing hinge mistakes and reducing triangulation.
- Ask them to support simple contact (like saying hi) rather than imposing strict no-contact rules.
Metamor Hiding In The Car
- Jace told a story of a metamor hiding in a car to avoid meeting, then unexpectedly introducing himself when timing changed.
- The surprise meeting went fine and eased the initial anxiety.
