

Stop Being Dismissed: Exactly What to Say the Next Time You’re Gaslit, Disrespected, or Ignored | Kwame Christian PT 2
Jul 3, 2025
In this enlightening conversation, Kwame Christian, a lawyer and master negotiator, teams up with Lisa Bilyeu to reveal the art of confident communication. They tackle the challenge of negotiating self-worth in a society that often discourages women from advocating for themselves. Discover practical techniques for turning conflicts into collaborations, the importance of emotional awareness, and how to set firm boundaries. Kwame also shares essential scripts for when you’re dismissed, emphasizing the transformative power of respectful dialogue and healthy detachment.
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Women Negotiate Societal Expectations
- Many women struggle to advocate for what they truly want due to societal pressures.
- Negotiating for externally imposed goals can create a "beautiful, admirable prison."
Negotiate for Those You Inspire
- Negotiate on behalf of those who win when you win, like family or other women.
- Use the motivation of others to boost advocacy and overcome self-undervaluation.
Negotiating With Inner Toddlers
- We often negotiate with both our own and others' 'inner toddlers' showing up emotionally.
- Treat yourself with the same compassion you would a child during internal self-work.