

Episode 153 - Sexual Feasts, Famines, and Snacks
Mar 26, 2021
Dive into the dynamic world of sexual intimacy, where the concepts of feasts, snacks, and famines reveal the ups and downs of desire in relationships. Discover how to navigate these phases with communication and understanding. Learn why some periods feel abundant while others feel scarce, and how to foster a stronger connection with your partner. This enlightening discussion highlights the importance of balancing casual encounters with meaningful intimacy, ensuring everyone’s needs are acknowledged.
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Sexual Feast vs Snack
- Sexual feast is rich, meaningful, and time-intensive akin to a full meal.
- Sexual snack is quick and satisfying but less rich, like a small bite between feasts.
Navigating Sexual Famine Periods
- Understand reasons for sexual famine like illness, stress, pregnancy, or exhaustion with young children.
- Build sexual connection during feast times to sustain through famines.
Scarcity Mindset Hurts Desire
- Desperation during sexual famine causes negative reactions that repel partners.
- A scarcity mindset worsens connection and prolongs the drought.