Death, Sex & Money A Middle-Aged Couple Made Porn to Spice Things Up. Then One of Them Got Fired.
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Mar 25, 2025 Joe Gow, a former chancellor known for his unconventional choice to create porn with his wife Carmen Wilson, candidly shares their journey. They discuss how adult filmmaking played a role in revitalizing their marriage, sparking humor and open communication. The couple delves into the unexpected fallout from their decision, including professional repercussions and familial challenges. They also confront societal misconceptions about pornography, highlighting the importance of self-expression and intimacy in midlife relationships.
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Porn Production and Job Loss
- Joe Gow, a university chancellor, made porn with his wife, Carmen.
- After being fired, he sued the university, claiming his actions were personal and artistic.
Compartmentalization and Academic Freedom
- Joe Gow believed his pornographic videos were compartmentalized from work.
- He defended his actions, citing academic freedom and the pursuit of truth.
Sexual Exploration and Monogamy with Benefits
- Joe and Carmen reconnected after previous marriages and explored a new sexual dynamic.
- They tried polyamory but found it unsatisfying, leading them to explore "monogamy with benefits."
