Joe Gow, a former chancellor known for his unconventional choice to create porn with his wife Carmen Wilson, candidly shares their journey. They discuss how adult filmmaking played a role in revitalizing their marriage, sparking humor and open communication. The couple delves into the unexpected fallout from their decision, including professional repercussions and familial challenges. They also confront societal misconceptions about pornography, highlighting the importance of self-expression and intimacy in midlife relationships.