How to deepen self-compassion with shadow work and self-forgiveness | Part 1 of 2
Oct 2, 2023
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Balance meditation expert Ofosu discusses shadow work and self-forgiveness. Learn how to embrace hidden parts of yourself and cultivate self-compassion. Explore practical exercises for shadow work and the significance of self-acceptance in this entertaining podcast.
Shadow work involves developing self-awareness and compassion towards the hidden parts of ourselves that we've suppressed, and can be integrated into various aspects of life such as meditation and creative expression.
Journaling serves as a powerful tool for self-reflection in shadow work, helping to identify the parts of ourselves we try to hide and contemplate how we can be kind to those hidden aspects.
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Shadow work: Embracing hidden parts for self-compassion
Shadow work involves developing self-awareness and compassion towards the hidden parts of ourselves that we've suppressed due to shame, trauma, or other reasons. The practice of shadow work can be integrated into various aspects of life, such as meditation and creative expression. For example, in songwriting, the artist explores vulnerable aspects and heals past self-loathing. To start shadow work, three exercises are suggested: meditation, particularly focusing on vulnerable areas, forgiveness meditation to release shame and guilt, and loving-kindness meditation to foster self-kindness. Additionally, employing the RAIN technique (Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture) introduced by Tara Brock can help acknowledge and accept triggering emotions. Embracing our shadow selves is a crucial step in cultivating self-forgiveness, self-acceptance, and ultimately self-compassion.
Journaling and meditation: Tools for self-reflection and kindness
Journaling serves as a powerful tool for self-reflection in shadow work. An effective journaling prompt involves identifying the parts of ourselves that we try to hide from self and others, and contemplating how we can be kind to those concealed aspects. Furthermore, meditation exercises that focus on forgiveness and loving-kindness contribute to developing a compassionate mindset. Both the forgiveness meditation and loving-kindness meditation offered on the Balance app guide individuals in practicing self-forgiveness and cultivating kindness towards oneself. By recognizing, allowing, investigating, and nurturing our shadow parts, we gradually lean towards self-acceptance, forgiveness, and the true essence of self-compassion, which involves embracing and befriending every aspect of who we are.
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Exploring Shadow Work, Self-Compassion, and Self-Forgiveness
Do you feel like there's a part of you you try to hide from everyone—even yourself? Learning to love that part of yourself is essential for self-forgiveness, self-acceptance, and emotional healing. And it has a name: shadow work.
Balance meditation expert Ofosu discusses his experience with shadow work and how you can start to do this shadow work yourself. He also shares why self-forgiveness is necessary for self-compassion.
Listen to Ofosu’s new album “AMIDA,” an exploration of self-compassion and mindfulness through hip-hop, released under his stage name “Born I.” https://onerpm.link/amida