Neurodiversity Podcast

Declarative Language: A New Strategy for Neurodivergent Communication

Mar 21, 2024

Linda Murphy, author of The Declarative Language Handbook, discusses reframing communication for neurodivergent individuals. Topics include declarative language vs. imperative language, benefits of declarative language in reducing stress and building relationships, and effective communication strategies for connecting with neurodivergent kids.

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Declarative language reduces stress in neurodivergent individuals by avoiding direct demands and pressures.

Passive-aggressive statements align mechanically with declaratives but differ in intention, emphasizing positive communication and genuine intentions.

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Declarative Language and Neurodivergent Communication

Neurodivergent individuals communicate differently and benefit from declarative language over imperative communication. Imperatives or questions can create stress responses, while declaratives guide without demands. Using declarative language fosters smoother communication and engagement, especially with neurodivergent children. Linda Murphy's Declarative Language Handbook promotes constructive interactions by focusing on experience sharing and positive intentions.

Introduction

1min

Exploring Leadership and Behavior Management Contrasts

2min

Understanding Declarative Language for Neurodivergent Communication

9min

Effective Communication Strategies for Secure Attention and Successful Message Delivery

4min

Enhancing Communication and Learning for Neurodivergent Individuals

17min

Strategies for Effective Communication with Neurodivergent Individuals

5min

Often, neurodivergent people have a completely different communication experience than neurotypicals. They respond differently to regulation, attention, and motivation, and often parents struggle when trying to improve connections with their kids. Linda Murphy is the author of The Declarative Language Handbook, and we present an encore of our conversation from 2023, with ideas on how to reframe communication and break down barriers.

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Linda Murphy is a speech language pathologist and RDI Consultant. She co-founded the “Peer Projects Therapy From the Heart” clinic in Beverly, Massachusetts, and has authored several books and numerous articles during her career. Linda has enjoyed working with individuals with social learning differences for over 25 years.

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