Radical Candor: Communication at Work Feedback vs. Nitpicking (If It's Yellow Let it Mellow) 5 | 13
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Jun 28, 2023 The podcast discusses the difference between feedback and nitpicking, emphasizing the importance of addressing big problems. It explores the drawbacks of using a 'feedback sandwich' approach and stresses the significance of expressing praise and gratitude. The hosts share personal experiences and discuss the role of editors. They also explore the concept of nitpicking and provide tips on addressing this behavior. The podcast highlights the importance of open communication and vulnerability in relationships.
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Radical Candor vs. Nitpicking
- Use Radical Candor effectively, not as an excuse for rudeness.
- Avoid complaining about everything; that's nitpicking, not candor.
Nitpicking as Aggression
- Nitpicking is a form of obnoxious aggression, often stemming from displaced frustration.
- The nitpicker is not truly concerned about the small details, it's something else.
Lice Obsession
- Kim Scott's experience with lice illustrates how concern can become obsessive.
- Her husband intervened when her cleaning reached extreme levels.