The Body Language Expert: Stop Using This, It’s Making People Dislike You, So Are These Subtle Mistakes! Your Resting Face Matters & How To Fix It!

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Dec 9, 2024

Vanessa Van Edwards, a behavioral investigator and bestselling author, delves into the secret language of nonverbal communication. She reveals why your resting face matters and shares three science-backed tricks to boost confidence. Learn how the right gestures can build trust and how to spot a liar quickly. Vanessa emphasizes the importance of authenticity and avoiding fake smiles. She also discusses how effective communication can enhance personal and professional relationships while warning against common pitfalls in social interactions.

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Cues for Success

Highly successful people speak a hidden language of cues.
Not knowing these cues can negatively impact your success in work, social, and romantic life.

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Warmth and Competence

82% of impressions are based on warmth and competence.
Control these cues to be memorable, confident, and communicate clearly.

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Communication for Introverts

Introverts and ambiverts can learn effective communication.
This doesn't require faking extroversion, but rather using tools and frameworks.

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Cues

Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication

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In this book, Vanessa Van Edwards teaches readers how to convey power, trust, leadership, likeability, and charisma in every interaction. The book focuses on the tiny signals we send to others through our body language, facial expressions, word choice, and vocal inflection. It provides practical advice on how to read and decode these cues, as well as how to encode positive cues to enhance communication. The book is filled with well-researched behavioral topics and real-life case studies, making it an indispensable guide for entrepreneurs, team leaders, young professionals, and anyone seeking to improve their social interactions and become more influential.

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