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BHE 107 - THE BERMUDA ZONE - Courtney & Alexandra

Mar 19, 2022
Courtney and Alexandra join Nancy for a lively attachment talk in the Bermuda Zone. They discuss contrasting attachment experiences and the fears each attachment type has for the others. The guests share their experiences as attachment parents, and the importance of being loved for who you are as an individual. They also explore grounding practices for each attachment type and what they think they needed from their parents.
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  • Attachment dynamics can suppress individuality and hinder personal growth within a family.
  • Challenging attachment structures can lead to more authentic connections between family members.

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The Importance of Self-Assurance in Attachment

Hexad children often find the self-assurance of their attachment parents jarring and can feel a sense of fear themselves. The fear stems from the belief that they might be the cause of their own suffering. Attachment parents may be unsure how to navigate their role, leading to a mix of self-doubt and moments of certainty. The children, in turn, may feel the need to sacrifice their own needs to ensure attachment and struggle to fully reveal themselves, inhibiting the depth of support and connection.

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