Happier with Gretchen Rubin A Little Happier: Would You Do For Someone Else What You Wouldn’t Do for Yourself?
Jan 26, 2026
A modern fable sets up a clever loophole people use to justify breaking good habits. The idea of 'loophole spotting' as a habit tool gets explained with familiar examples. The conversation explores how caring for others can sometimes mask self-deception. Practical questions are offered to help prioritize habits and values during big life transitions.
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Possum Persimmon Fable
- William March's fable about the possum and the persimmon tree illustrates moral loopholes vividly.
- The possum claims concern for his wife while deciding to steal persimmons for himself.
No One-Size-Fits-All Habits
- Gretchen Rubin frames habits with 21 strategies from Better Than Before.
- Different strategies suit different people and situations, so no single set fits everyone.
Actively Spot Loopholes
- Spot your loopholes to avoid excuses that undermine habits.
- Catching loophole-seeking behavior improves chances of keeping habits.
