Psychologist Kathleen Nadeau and life coach Kristen Carder discuss how ADHD manifests in women and the role of hormonal fluctuations. They highlight coping mechanisms that could be making life harder and give advice on creating structure and accountability in the workplace. They also explore the impact of perfectionism on careers and the importance of support for women with ADHD.
ADHD is often underdiagnosed and misunderstood in girls and women, with boys more likely to receive referrals for diagnosis due to hyperactive and impulsive behaviors, while girls with inattentive symptoms tend to go unnoticed.
ADHD can pose challenges in the workplace for women, leading to difficulties with focus, time management, emotional regulation, and self-motivation, but having a structured environment and support system, seeking accommodations, simplifying tasks, and finding safe accountability partners or support groups can help improve productivity and well-being.
Deep dives
Understanding ADHD in Girls and Women
ADHD is often underdiagnosed and misunderstood in girls and women. Boys with hyperactive and impulsive behaviors are more likely to get referrals for diagnosis, while girls with inattentive symptoms tend to go unnoticed. Hormonal fluctuations can also affect symptoms. Self-awareness, inhibition, working memory, emotional regulation, self-motivation, and planning are key executive functions affected by ADHD. Seeking a diagnosis and understanding one's own symptoms is important for accessing appropriate support and treatment.
The Impact of ADHD on Career Success
ADHD can pose challenges in the workplace, particularly for women. Difficulties with focus, time management, emotional regulation, and self-motivation can lead to professional difficulties and overwhelm. Having a structured environment and support system can be crucial. Seeking accommodations, simplifying tasks, and finding safe accountability partners or support groups can help improve productivity and well-being.
Addressing Shame and Seeking Help for ADHD
Shame can often accompany ADHD symptoms, leading individuals to hide their struggles and try to appear competent. Recognizing that ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder and seeking help is important. Educating oneself about ADHD symptoms, considering familial patterns, and self-evaluation can be helpful in identifying symptoms. Seeking professional screening and being persistent in finding a clinician who takes ADHD symptoms seriously are crucial steps in accessing appropriate support and treatment.
Strategies for Managing ADHD at Work
Building a support system and implementing structure are key strategies for managing ADHD at work. Seeking accountability, collaborating with colleagues, and delegating tasks can help manage overwhelming workloads. Recognizing personal strengths, setting realistic standards and expectations, and embracing self-acceptance are also important for navigating the challenges of ADHD in the workplace.
ADHD can mess with a person’s ability to remember responsibilities and deadlines, start and stop projects, and show up as the on-top-of-everything employee that a boss expects. For women, these symptoms are also in direct contrast to what society expects us to be: attentive, organized, self-controlled. If you have ADHD, getting practical support from colleagues and emotional support from others in the same boat is essential to reaching your potential at work.
Two women who have ADHD—one’s a psychologist and the other a life coach—explain the many different ways that this chronic, brain-based disorder manifests, and how hormonal fluctuations factor in. They point out coping mechanisms that might actually be making your life harder, and give advice for creating the structure and accountability you need in your job.
Guests:
Kathleen Nadeau is a psychologist, the clinical director of The Chesapeake Center, and author of many books about ADHD, including her latest, Still Distracted After All These Years.
Kristen Carder hosts the podcast I Have ADHD and runs a group coaching program called Focused.