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The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

Why We're Mean to Our Future Selves (LIVE from Boston)

May 8, 2023
40:38

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Quick takeaways

  • Considering our future selves as similar to our present selves helps us make decisions based on current preferences and anticipate future needs.
  • Acknowledging the limitations of our predictions and understanding that our future selves will be influenced by various factors helps us avoid making decisions that we may regret in the long run.

Deep dives

Understanding the Bias Against Future Selves

Humans have a tendency to treat their future selves as strangers, which often leads to making decisions that prioritize present preferences over future well-being. This bias stems from the brain's differentiation between thinking about similar others and dissimilar others. By considering our future selves as similar to our present selves, we can make decisions based on current preferences and anticipate future needs. In addition, using first-person language when thinking about our future selves can strengthen the connection and bridge the gap between our present and future identities. These strategies help us overcome biases and make decisions that align with our long-term happiness and well-being.

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