Life Kit How introverts and extroverts can be better friends
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Oct 30, 2025 
Yo-Wei Shaw, a reporter and podcast host, delves into the dynamics between introverts and extroverts, exploring how these personality types can clash in friendships. Joined by Jennifer Kahnweiler, an organizational behavior expert, they discuss common frustrations each type feels towards the other. Jennifer shares strategies for improving communication and trust, such as using physical cues and specific scripts for expressing needs. They highlight the importance of empathy and appreciation in nurturing these mixed relationships.
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Marriage Sparked Her Career Focus
- Jennifer Kahnweiler discovered extrovert/introvert differences after marrying an introvert and noticing friction.
- That led her to research, write books, and coach for 25 years on the topic.
Personality Is A Fluid Spectrum
- Introversion and extroversion sit on a spectrum and describe energy orientation, not fixed labels.
- Context and age change where you fall on that spectrum over time.
Questions Can Build Or Breach Trust
- Extroverts build trust by asking questions; introverts may perceive that as intrusive.
- Misread intentions fuel conflict even when both sides seek connection.
