How to Pursue Your Goals with Mindfulness, with Rosie
Aug 29, 2023
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Topics discussed include letting go of expectations while pursuing goals, resolving conflicts in a relationship, managing extreme PMS, advocating for therapy, navigating relationships, and seeking support
Distinguishing between wants and expectations is crucial when pursuing goals, allowing for motivation without the potential disappointment of unmet expectations.
Effective communication and active listening are key in managing conflict in romantic relationships, with an emphasis on acknowledging feelings and finding common ground to resolve conflicts.
Deep dives
Balancing wants and desires
One of the featured questions in this episode discusses the dilemma of balancing the desire for goals and dreams while also practicing letting go. The host and guest explore the idea that wanting and desiring things is natural and can be motivating, but the potential disappointment arises when expectations are tied to those wants. The importance of distinguishing between wants and expectations is highlighted, with a focus on using mindfulness and self-awareness to navigate the complexities and potential consequences of deep wants and expectations.
Conflict management in relationships
Another question brought up the challenge of managing conflict in a long-term relationship. The hosts offer insights into the importance of effective communication and active listening in resolving conflicts. They emphasize the need for both partners to acknowledge each other's feelings and find common ground by understanding the underlying desires and concerns. The episode also mentions the potential benefits of couples therapy or other resources to improve communication and conflict resolution skills.
Dealing with extreme PMS
The podcast addresses a listener's question about dealing with intense PMS symptoms that significantly affect their mood and relationships. While acknowledging the difficulty of managing such hormonal fluctuations, the hosts suggest several strategies for coping during those times. They emphasize the importance of self-care, open communication, and setting personal boundaries. The hosts also mention the possibility of seeking medical advice, including exploring herbal remedies or speaking with a doctor about potential treatment options to alleviate physical symptoms.
Keep your wants, examine your expectations. Rosie and Robin answer questions about letting go of wants and desires, but still having that fuel to go after your dreams, managing conflict in romantic relationships, and dealing with extreme PMS.