Rena Malik, MD Podcast: Optimizing Health, Sex & Relationships with Science Backed Tips from Leading Experts Moment: Why Your Sexual Kinks Aren’t As Weird As You Think, explained by a Sex Therapist
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Oct 16, 2024 In this enlightening discussion, sex therapist Dr. Kate Balestrieri, who specializes in kinks and sexual fantasies, uncovers the intriguing world of non-normative sexual practices. She explains how various kinks, from foot fetishes to BDSM, satisfy psychological needs and desires. The conversation includes tips on safely exploring fantasies, the importance of open communication about consent, and managing vulnerability. Balestrieri also shares insights on handling regrets and the essential role of aftercare in deepening emotional connections.
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Defining Kinks
- Kinks are sexual interests that deviate from the norm, like missionary position.
- They can involve body parts, fantasies, role play, scenarios, or sensations.
Pain and Pleasure
- Pain can be a kink because it creates intense sensations and releases endorphins.
- Pain and pleasure overlap in the brain, making their distinction complex.
Common Kinks
- Foot fetishes are a common kink, possibly due to the proximity of feet and genitals in the brain's somatosensory areas.
- Role-playing, especially BDSM, is more prevalent than many admit.