Hidden Brain The Price of Revenge
Jun 2, 2025
In this engaging discussion, James Kimmel Jr., a Lecturer at Yale's Department of Psychiatry, explores the psychology of revenge. He reveals how our yearning for vengeance can resemble addiction, fueled by emotional turmoil and primal instincts. Kimmel examines intriguing historical figures like Hitler and Stalin to illustrate the global impact of revenge. He also touches on the importance of empathy in redefining justice and the potential healing power of forgiveness. This thought-provoking conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with retribution.
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Michael Stokes' Revenge Tragedy
- Michael Stokes, a former Navy cook, shot two people out of revenge after feeling betrayed in a personal relationship.
- His actions stemmed from emotional spirals of depression, anger, and perceived mockery.
Kimmel's Revenge Avoidance Story
- James Kimmel Jr. was bullied and sought revenge but stopped before violence, realizing killing would destroy his identity.
- Instead, he avoided violence, later channeled revenge legally as a lawyer.
Revenge Sparks Brain's Reward
- Neuroscience shows revenge activates the brain's pleasure and reward circuits, even at personal cost.
- People often punish others despite knowing it harms themselves, highlighting revenge as a source of pleasure.
