Explore the signs of deep emotional compatibility that can make or break your relationships. Discover why connection is more than just a spark, focusing on authenticity over excitement. Unpack the unique challenges and strengths of youngest children in family dynamics and relationships. Learn about the four emotional languages and the power of laughter in fostering bonds. Finally, get equipped with a compatibility checklist to navigate love more wisely!
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Compatibility over Chemistry
Compatibility is crucial for long-term relationship success, even if initial chemistry is strong.
Jemma recognizes compatibility as more important than initial excitement.
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Mistaking Chemistry for Compatibility
Jemma initially confused chemistry and compatibility, prioritizing initial intensity over deeper connection.
She now values both, having learned from past experiences.
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Emotional Similarity
Fundamental emotional similarity is crucial for a fulfilling relationship.
Without it, emotional needs remain unmet.
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This book serves as a roadmap for understanding and navigating the chaotic personal and professional moments of one's twenties. Jemma Sbeg, host of the podcast 'The Psychology of Your 20s', provides advice, personal stories, and research-based insights to help readers deal with issues such as imposter syndrome, self-sabotage, anxiety, and relationship challenges. The book includes questions and self-guided moments for reflection in each chapter, aiming to enhance the reader's self-growth journey and make the most of this formative decade.
When we first meet someone, the thing we instantly look for is a 'spark' - do a connect, are we attracted to each other, do we feel passion and fire and connection. What we often forget to look for is compatibility - does this person see me? Compatibility is the long term make or break of a relationship, regardless of how much intensity is there in the beginning. In today's episode, we break down the 5 biggest signs of emotional compatibility, including:
Why we should be searching for stillness over excitement
What effortless communication should feel like
Do you need to have the same political views as your partner?
The 4 emotional languages
The secret power of laughter + so much more
Finally, I share a brief compatibility checklist so you can judge a new relationship or connection for yourself. Listen now!
The Psychology of your 20s is not a substitute for professional mental health help. If you are struggling, distressed or require personalised advice, please reach out to your doctor or a licensed psychologist.
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