The Art of Manliness The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in a World That Won’t Stop Talking
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Mar 27, 2023 
Dan Lyons, author of "STFU: The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World," dives into the consequences of our talk-heavy culture. He categorizes overtalkers, from blurters to talkaholics, exploring their impact on relationships. Discussing the toxicity of social media and conversational narcissism, Lyons advocates for mindful communication. He highlights silence as a powerful tool for negotiation and deep connections, emphasizing that sometimes less really is more in both personal and professional interactions.
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Overtalking Research Gap
- Overtalking is under-researched, unlike shyness.
- There's a cultural bias favoring extroversion.
Downsides of Overtalking
- Besides annoyance, overtalking has serious downsides.
- It can damage relationships and careers.
Overtalking Addiction
- An overtalker, despite warnings, chose demotion over changing his behavior.
- This highlights the addictive nature of overtalking for some.
