Modern Wisdom #791 - Dr Robert Glover - Why Most Men Fail To Attract A Quality Woman
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Jun 1, 2024 
Dr. Robert Glover, a therapist and author known for "No More Mr. Nice Guy," dives into why men struggle to attract quality partners. He explores the balance between self-care and emotional honesty in relationships. Listeners learn about the cycle of emotional isolation and the importance of self-worth. Glover also addresses the allure of the 'nice guy' image and its pitfalls. With practical dating tips for the newly single, especially post-divorce, he emphasizes authenticity and genuine connections in the modern dating landscape.
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Subjugating Needs
- Many men subjugate their needs, believing it's the path to fulfillment.
- This inaccurate belief is often wired into the nervous system during infancy.
Prioritizing Yourself
- Start meeting your own needs, even in small ways, to reverse the pattern of neglecting yourself.
- Give to yourself first, then you'll have more to offer others.
Neediness vs. Self-Care
- Neediness stems from neglecting your own needs and seeking fulfillment externally.
- Prioritizing yourself eliminates neediness and allows genuine giving.
