The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

Ep. 4: Tracking Arousal- Not Behavior

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Dec 4, 2020
Explore the transformative idea of prioritizing arousal over behavior in parenting, especially for children from trauma backgrounds. Discover how understanding a child's arousal levels can lead to better emotional regulation and care. The discussion emphasizes the importance of felt safety and connection, moving away from traditional behavior modification techniques. Learn about Dr. Bruce Perry's arousal continuum model and how it relates to behavioral responses during stress, advocating for a compassionate and insightful parenting approach.
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ADVICE

Track Arousal, Not Just Behavior

  • Shift focus from solely tracking behaviors to understanding the underlying arousal.
  • Track the energy and arousal driving actions for more effective, long-term change.
INSIGHT

Felt Safety Drives Behavior

  • When humans feel safe, they exhibit connection-seeking behaviors.
  • Conversely, a lack of felt safety triggers protective behaviors, often those we aim to change.
INSIGHT

Arousal Continuum and Behavior

  • Dr. Perry's arousal continuum identifies four levels: alert, alarm, fear, and terror.
  • Increasing arousal correlates with escalating behaviors, from opposition to aggression.
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