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The Hidden Crisis in Modern Men | Connor Beaton Reveals the Truth

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Dec 7, 2025
Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks and author of Men's Work, dives deep into the emotional struggles facing modern men. He discusses how pornography serves as a coping mechanism, often replacing meaningful intimacy. Connor highlights the pain of emotional suppression and the importance of male friendships. He emphasizes the need for somatic healing and genuine connections, challenging the myth that vulnerability is a weakness. The conversation is a powerful call for men to confront their internal battles and foster authentic relationships.
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INSIGHT

Porn As A Reset Button

  • Porn offers high reward and low rejection, so men use it to reset uncomfortable internal states.
  • Connor Beaton says accessibility plus biological drive makes porn a potent coping tool that replaces intimacy.
ADVICE

Monitor Frequency And Context

  • Moderate masturbation and media use and notice if it becomes a daily necessity.
  • Connor Beaton warns that early exposure and frequent use can escalate into compulsive, shameful patterns.
INSIGHT

Neurosis Hides Deeper Pain

  • Neuroses and compulsions function as protective coping patterns that avoid core pain.
  • Connor Beaton explains these behaviors give short-term relief while the unconscious continues to drive life choices.
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