Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard Jedidiah Jenkins (author and memoirist)
Nov 23, 2023
Jedidiah Jenkins, an acclaimed author known for his insightful memoirs, dives deep into personal identity shaped by faith and sexuality. He explores the nuances of preparation for intimacy while navigating social norms. The conversation touches on finding common ground with differing beliefs and the emotional journey of retracing his mother’s walk across America. With humor and heart, Jedidiah shares how memoir writing has helped him understand complex family dynamics, and the vital role of therapy in overcoming shame and fostering connection.
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Waiting on Rihanna's Schedule
- Jedidiah Jenkins recounted reconnecting with Rihanna who admired his charity work and called him multiple times until he answered.
- They spent six hours waiting on a music video set where she kept her own schedule, showing her free-spirited nature.
Gay Culture's Intimacy Dynamics
- Jenkins discussed gay culture's 'best boy syndrome' where closeted boys strive to prove their worth with achievements.
- He also described intimate but non-sexual relationships with straight male friends, illustrating complex social dynamics in conservative environments.
Car Crash Sparks Sexual Awakening
- Jenkins recalled flipping his car on January 1, 2003, and being comforted by a buff fireman providing a full-body check.
- This traumatic moment was his sexual awakening, occurring years before his first sexual encounter at 28.
