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Overthink

Orgasm

May 9, 2023
51:08

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  • The female orgasm is a non-adaptive byproduct that emerged due to shared developmental processes with men, highlighting the need to address biases and acknowledge the diverse experiences of women's sexual pleasure.
  • The existence of an orgasm gap between men and women, particularly in heterosexual encounters, is influenced by social factors such as body image, pressure to prioritize male pleasure, and the impact of sexual violation, emphasizing the importance of addressing and challenging these factors to close the gap.

Deep dives

The Female Orgasm: Deconstructing Adaptationist Theories

Elizabeth Lloyd's book challenges adaptationist theories regarding the purpose of the female orgasm. It is argued that these theories are rooted in biased assumptions and lack supporting scientific evidence. The pair bonding theory suggests that orgasm strengthens emotional connection between partners, increasing the likelihood of long-term commitment and child-rearing. However, the absence of data and the orgasm gap between men and women weakens this theory. The female choice theory proposes that orgasms select and benefit the quality of sperm. Again, insufficient data and the disconnect between orgasm and reproductive success undermine this theory. Lloyd suggests that the female orgasm is a non-adaptive byproduct or "bonus" that emerged due to shared developmental processes with men. She emphasizes the social and cultural significance of the orgasm, separate from its evolutionary implications, and highlights the need to address biases and acknowledge the diverse experiences of women's sexual pleasure.

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