

354: Can't Lower Your Standards? That’s Not a Flaw – It’s Your Biology.
Mar 20, 2025
Join evolutionary psychologist Doug Lisle and co-host Nathan Gershfeld as they tackle the complex world of dating and personal standards. They explore whether it's wise to settle when you haven't found excitement in love, particularly at the age of 45. Discover insights into the biological and psychological factors driving attraction and the value of rarity in human excitement. The conversation also encourages taking risks in dating and shifting from passivity to active engagement, all while navigating the challenges of modern relationships.
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Intro
00:00 • 4min
Navigating Relationships: Age, Choices, and Romantic Ideals
03:30 • 4min
Navigating Personal Standards in Relationships
07:27 • 5min
Navigating the Complexities of Attraction
12:05 • 28min
The Value of Rarity in Human Excitement and Pursuits
40:07 • 2min
Embracing Risk and the Challenge of Dating
42:08 • 6min