The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating & Relationships Here is Why Nothing Feels Good Anymore
Dec 9, 2025
Jeremy Lipkowitz, a former Brutus monk and neuroscience-informed coach, dives deep into the effects of porn addiction on men’s lives. He reveals how quick pleasures lead to feelings of emptiness and explores the subtle signs that indicate porn may be harming relationships. Jeremy discusses the impact on intimacy, how societal pressures deplete joy, and emphasizes the power of community in recovery. He also shares methods for mindfulness and personal growth, highlighting the transformative journey from addiction to deeper connection.
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Quick Pleasure Hijacks The Brain
- Industries hijack our dopamine systems to sell quick pleasure and don't care about long-term wellbeing.
- That hijacking leaves people numb and steals presence and genuine pleasure from life.
Many Habits Share One Hidden Pattern
- Compulsive solitary behaviors share the same neural and emotional pattern beyond just porn.
- Their harms are subtle and downstream, so consequences are often hard to see immediately.
Porn Rewires Attention And Desire
- Porn rewires attention, causing poor focus, irritability, and reduced enjoyment of simple pleasures.
- It increases novelty-seeking and can escalate sexual dysfunction and relationship dissatisfaction.