The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating & Relationships

Kirsten Trammell
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Feb 17, 2026 • 25min

The Truth About Choking During Sex Most Men Don't Know

Conversations about rising requests for choking during sex and why safety and consent are essential. Clear rules and red lines for safer play are outlined. Practical, non-harmful techniques to create intensity without breath restriction are demonstrated. Tips for sober pre-talks, safe signals, and respectful ways to decline pressure are offered.
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Feb 10, 2026 • 26min

This Is How To Finger a Woman The Right Way

Your hands are more powerful than you think. Tune in to learn the complete fingering progression, how to build proper anticipation, and the specific techniques that lead her to full-body orgasms. Whether you're just starting to explore fingering techniques or you've been with your partner for years, this episode breaks down the step-by-step process to maximize connection and pleasure. 🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Connect with Kirsten T for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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Feb 3, 2026 • 25min

How To Kiss A Girl To Turn Her On

A deep dive into why a kiss signals sexual confidence and previews bedroom behavior. Learn the neurochemistry that makes kissing intoxicating. Hear common first-kiss mistakes to avoid and the three ingredients that make a kiss unforgettable. Practical tips cover consent, lip and breath prep, rhythm, hands, and presence to amplify attraction and intimacy.
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Jan 27, 2026 • 59min

Why You're Not Actually Turning Her On (And How Erotic Blueprints Fix It)

If you want to create deeper sexual connection and understand how sexual arousal works, in this episode, you will learn about erotic blueprints, how to read your partner's unique turn-on language, and why the same moves don't work on every woman. Stop guessing what she wants and start speaking her body's language. 🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Connect with Kirsten T for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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Jan 20, 2026 • 27min

3 Steps to Get Her to Open Up to You

Struggling with emotional distance in relationships? Discover the transformative Vulnerability Loop, revealing how emotional safety enhances intimacy and connection. Learn the importance of small, intentional shares instead of overwhelming emotional dumps. Find out how to teach your partner to respond effectively, fostering deeper connections that ignite desire. Plus, gain insights on assessing patterns in your relationship to ensure both partners are engaged. It's time to create the intimacy that strengthens your bond.
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Jan 13, 2026 • 36min

How to Make Her Actually Want Anal Sex

What if her "no" to anal isn't rejection… but information? This episode will teach you how women experience anal sex, what actually creates desire for it, and why pressuring the act kills attraction. You'll learn how to talk about anal without manipulation, and the exact progression that allows curiosity to replace resistance. Whether you're in a long-term relationship or dating someone new, this episode gives you a grounded, honest path forward. 🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Connect with Kirsten T for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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Jan 6, 2026 • 55min

This One Pattern Creates Sexless Marriages w/Dr. Alexandra Stockwell

When you stop saying what you want, desire doesn't disappear. It goes underground. If you are a man who feels disconnected in your relationship, unsure how to express desire without pressure, or quietly compromising more than you admit, this episode will change how you see intimacy. You'll learn how emotional honesty fuels attraction, how to talk about sex without killing the mood, and why withholding yourself for "peace" slowly erodes connection. Learn why most men unknowingly trade desire for harmony, how to reconnect to what you actually want, and how authentic communication can reignite sex without forcing anything. Whether you're married, partnered, or questioning what intimacy could feel like again, this episode offers a grounded, practical path back to connection. Stop managing the relationship. Start being in it. Connect with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell How to Ask your Woman for Sex (so she's more likely to say Yes): www.alexandrastockwell.com/yes 🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Connect with Kirsten T for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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Dec 30, 2025 • 23min

End Performance Anxiety in 3 Simple Steps

Performance anxiety is sabotaging your sex life and creating the exact outcomes you fear. If you struggle with staying hard, coming too fast, or avoiding intimacy because you're worried about failing, you'll learn the Tension Release Protocol, how to interrupt the Inner Critic loop in 3 seconds, and why removing expectations dissolves anxiety faster than fighting it. 🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Connect with Kirsten for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover CHAPTERS 00:00 Understanding Performance Anxiety 00:57 Introduction to The Naked Connection 01:08 The Tension Release Protocol 04:33 Step 1: The Three Second Reentry 08:02 Step 2: Zero Expectation Touch 12:22 Step 3: Partner Focused Reframe 17:31 Recap and Final Thoughts
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Dec 23, 2025 • 38min

How to Role Play in Bed (Especially When You've Never Done It Before)

Explore the thrilling world of roleplay to reignite excitement in your relationship! Discover how predictability can dampen desire and find out why novelty is key to female arousal. Kirsten shares a simple framework to dive into roleplay, tackling common fears and creative blocks. Delve into enticing scenarios like strangers meeting, professional power dynamics, and sensual worship sessions. Learn how to set the scene with small details and establish safety for a liberating experience. Get ready to bring fun back into your intimacy!
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Dec 16, 2025 • 26min

Why Most Men Ruin Foreplay and How to Fix It in 3 Stages

Rushing foreplay is killing her arousal and you don't even realize it. If you want to guarantee her pleasure and deepen intimacy, in this episode you'll learn the 3-Stage Intentional Foreplay Blueprint, how to ground her nervous system before building arousal, and why mapping her body with curiosity creates better orgasms than any technique. Whether you're struggling to make her orgasm or just want to level up your skills, this episode shows you exactly how to turn foreplay from a chore into the most powerful part of sex. Stop performing and start connecting. 🔥 Just how good are you in bed? Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed. Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz 🧠 Connect with Kirsten for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover

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