The Art of Manliness Embracing the Strive State
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May 15, 2024 
Dr. Adam Fraser, a peak performance researcher and author of "Strive: Embracing the Gift of Struggle," dives into the transformative power of challenges in our lives. He argues that true happiness isn't found in ease but in embracing the 'strive state,' where growth stems from discomfort. Adam discusses the dangers of making life too easy for children, stressing the importance of resilience. He emphasizes that fulfillment arises from navigating struggles and taking courageous actions towards meaningful goals.
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Source of Real Joy
- True joy is found in the journey, especially when it includes difficulty and discomfort.
- Dr. Adam Fraser emphasizes the importance of embracing struggle for fulfillment.
Strive State vs. Flow State
- While flow states are enjoyable, the "strive state" (high challenge, low enjoyment) fosters growth and self-esteem.
- These challenging experiences often lead to greater self-amazement and long-term development.
Dalai Lama Conference
- Adam Fraser describes presenting at the Dalai Lama conference as a personal strive state experience.
- Despite initial terror, he nailed the presentation, boosting his self-belief.
