The Art of Manliness
The Science of Motivating Your Kids (And Any Young Adult)
Aug 7, 2024
David Yeager, a developmental psychologist and author of "10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People," shares key insights on motivating young adults. He tackles the 'mentor's dilemma,' emphasizing the need for a balance between authority and empathy in mentorship. Yeager discusses the neurological development of adolescents and the profound impact of a sense of belonging on motivation. He highlights the power of constructive dialogue and positive reinforcement over criticism, providing a toolkit for parents and mentors to inspire and engage the next generation.
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- The mentor's dilemma highlights the challenge of balancing high expectations with supportive feedback to effectively guide young individuals.
- Understanding the psychological dynamics of young people, including their sensitivity to social status, is crucial for motivating and connecting with them.
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Understanding Young Adults' Needs
Young people, especially those aged 10 to 25, often exhibit challenging behavior that can frustrate parents and mentors. This behavior is typically attributed to their developmental stage, marked by underdeveloped brains and fluctuating hormones. However, the root cause may lie in how mentors approach these young individuals. Effective mentorship requires understanding what truly motivates them, rather than adhering to a binary approach of authoritarian versus lenient mentorship.
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