

The Science of Motivating Your Kids (And Any Young Adult)
198 snips Aug 7, 2024
David Yeager, a developmental psychologist and author of "10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People," shares key insights on motivating young adults. He tackles the 'mentor's dilemma,' emphasizing the need for a balance between authority and empathy in mentorship. Yeager discusses the neurological development of adolescents and the profound impact of a sense of belonging on motivation. He highlights the power of constructive dialogue and positive reinforcement over criticism, providing a toolkit for parents and mentors to inspire and engage the next generation.
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The Mentor's Dilemma
- Mentors often face a dilemma: be tough but potentially demotivating or be soft but ineffective.
- This dilemma arises from ineffective communication, not young adults' inherent sensitivity.
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- Uphold high standards while providing support to avoid demotivation.
- Clarify your intentions to show you care and believe in the young person's potential.
Sensitivity to Status and Respect
- Young people (10-25) have brains sensitive to social status and respect, impacting their motivation.
- They seek the feeling of valuable contribution acknowledged by their social group.