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1938: When Isolation Is Actually Protection by Shelby Forsythia on Grieving and the Value of Being Alone

Oct 23, 2023
11:23
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Shelby Forsythia, Intuitive Grief Guide, discusses the wisdom and value of isolation as a form of protection. Topics include societal expectations around grief, the healing power of isolation, and seeking answers through therapy.
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  • Isolation can serve as a protective measure for grieving individuals, allowing them to avoid triggering situations and heal from grief before reengaging with the outside world.
  • Isolation should be reframed as a sign of something deeply right rather than wrong, as it allows individuals to rest, restore, and focus on inner healing while grieving.

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Isolation as Protection During Grief

Grief is a significant yet often undiscussed part of relationships. After experiencing multiple losses, clients may oscillate between engaging with the world or shutting it out entirely. However, isolation should not always be viewed as negative, as it can serve as a protective measure. Grieving individuals may isolate to avoid encountering insensitive remarks, expectations of happiness, exhaustion from everyday activities, triggering situations, and uncontrollable emotions. Choosing isolation after a loss shows inherent wisdom and the need for safety, stillness, and protection. It is a temporary retreat that allows individuals to heal from grief before reengaging with the outside world.

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