Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

Prioritizing Your Pleasure: How to Rediscover Your Spark with Shan Boodram

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Jul 15, 2025
Shan Boodram, a renowned sexuality educator and certified sexologist, brings her vibrant expertise to the discussion. She shares insights on redefining intimacy and discusses reclaiming pleasure through innovative jewelry designs. The conversation highlights the importance of flirting as playful communication and introduces her unique 'sexy eye triangle' technique. Shan also addresses societal shifts in sexual education and the evolving nature of passion in long-term relationships, encouraging a fresh perspective on sexuality and connection.
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INSIGHT

Parenting As A Shifting Exchange

  • Shan Boodram reframes parenting as a shifting exchange of giving and getting rather than a zero-sum sacrifice.
  • Regaining pockets of personal time lets her be more present and intentional with her children.
ANECDOTE

Nighttime Rubbing Ritual

  • Shan shares that she lovingly rubs her daughters to sleep each night and values this ritual despite trade-offs.
  • She chooses that close time because it gives her rest later and deepens their bond.
INSIGHT

Curiosity Fueled A Career In Sex Education

  • Shan always felt drawn to intimacy and turned early curiosity into a career in sex education.
  • Lack of accurate, inviting information pushed her to make sex ed both erotic and accessible.
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