The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women What I Learned About Girls in My 5 Years as a Bouncer & Doorman
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Aug 29, 2024 
Mark, a former bouncer and doorman, shares eye-opening insights about women’s perceptions of authority and social status. He recounts amusing stories highlighting how his role boosted his attractiveness and garnered attention. Mark explains how elements like personal presentation and social standing influence attraction. Listeners can learn to leverage these dynamics in their own interactions, using his unique experiences to enhance their dating life and confidence.
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Five Years As A Bouncer Changed Everything
- Mark worked five years as a bouncer and interacted with tens of thousands of women which sharpened his social instincts.
- He credits that volume of interactions for making him far more skilled with women than typical coaches.
Perceived Value Beats Actual Income
- Perceived value raises your social rank and attracts women even if actual status is low.
- Wear visible signals of authority or become the person who runs the activity to gain that advantage.
Get Into High-Status Roles
- Do put yourself in roles where you hold obvious social authority like teacher or organizer.
- Try to ascend to leader of a hobby or start your own group to become automatically attractive.