The Unapologetic Man Podcast

Mark Sing
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Sep 1, 2025 • 22min

Fear of Rejection? Get My Stupid Simple Strategy to Beat Approach Anxiety For Good: “REJECTION MAXING”

In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing explains why men have such an intrinsic fear of rejection. Mark breaks down how it’s wired into your DNA, a leftover from our tribal past that has no relevance in the modern day. To help you overcome this obstacle, Mark reveals his strategy called “Rejection Maxing”—a practical method for systematically desensitizing yourself to rejection by going out and deliberately getting rejected in low-stakes situations. Showing how making rejection a game will not only dissolve approach anxiety but also build confidence, outcome independence. It’s time to flip the script and take control of situations that used to intimidate you!   Key Takeaways: - Why fear of rejection exists in your brain and why it’s completely natural. - How to systematically desensitize yourself to rejection with “Rejection Maxing.” - Turning potentially scary situations into playful challenges that build confidence. - Using persona and avatar techniques to practice approaching women without real-world risk.   Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview [00:01:05] – The Reason Why You Have Approach Anxiety [00:02:11] – You’re SUPPOSED To Fear Rejection [00:02:46] – Why Rejection Is Not A Big Deal In The Modern Day [00:05:51] – Rejection Maxing: Turning Rejection Into A Game [00:07:39] – Mark’s METALLICA Story [00:08:56] – The Importance Of Pushing Social Norms [00:13:10] – Julian’s Experience In Mark’s Coaching Program [00:16:42] – The Avatar Technique: Change Your Persona [00:20:14] – Wrap-Up & Coaching Invitation   Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula   About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #OvercomeRejection #ApproachAnxiety #RejectionMaxing #ConfidenceForMen #SocialCourage
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8 snips
Aug 28, 2025 • 20min

What to Say to a Woman to Make Her Feel TRULY SPECIAL

Discover the secrets to making a woman feel truly special by honing in on her unique traits. Learn why complimenting looks is often a misstep and what genuine appreciation should focus on instead. Master the 80/100 rule and the Barometer Rule to navigate interactions with confidence. Uncover the power of timing in compliments, deploying them during emotional peaks for maximum effect. This guide provides insightful tips to maintain balance between distance and interest while ensuring you stand out from the crowd.
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15 snips
Aug 25, 2025 • 20min

How to Know You're in The FRIENDZONE: Compliments Girls Give You That Are Actually Rejections

Explore the hidden meanings behind seemingly sweet compliments that may signal rejection. Discover why phrases like 'Some girl will be lucky to have you' trap you in the friend zone. Learn critical mistakes men often make that lead to this predicament and how to flip the script by friend zoning her first. With humorous examples and practical advice, this conversation is a savvy guide to escaping the friend zone and boosting your romantic life.
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9 snips
Aug 21, 2025 • 22min

Why Playing Games Is the Key to Protecting Yourself in Dating

Explore the controversial truth that playing games can actually protect your heart in dating. Discover why opening up too soon can hurt attraction and how emotional restraint creates respect. Learn about the 80/100 rule to keep yourself safe while navigating relationships. Understand why having options makes you more desirable and how to master the art of nonchalance. This insightful discussion sheds light on the delicate balance between vulnerability and emotional control, ultimately guiding you toward deeper connections.
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20 snips
Aug 18, 2025 • 23min

5 Super Subtle Signs That a Woman Wants to be Approached by You

Discover the subtle signals that indicate a woman is ready to be approached. Learn how body language, like positioning and mirroring, acts as an invitation. Understand the meaning behind a smile and how proximity can signify interest. Mark paints a picture of common behaviors that often go unnoticed, helping guys recognize green lights in social settings. With practical insights and engaging stories, this guide aims to boost confidence and eliminate guesswork in making that move.
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31 snips
Aug 14, 2025 • 21min

Why Women Really Want Jerks and Not Nice Guys

Dive into the psychology of attraction as the host explores why 'jerks' captivate women while nice guys often get overlooked. Discover the allure of challenge and mystery that jerks represent in dating dynamics. Learn the 80-100 rule for maintaining emotional balance in relationships, and why self-assurance trumps neediness. Enjoy insights on cultivating personal growth and integrity while navigating love, ultimately revealing how to attract high-quality partners without losing your values.
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14 snips
Aug 11, 2025 • 26min

If You Don’t Do These 7 Things, She Will Leave You

Discover practical advice for men facing relationship troubles. Learn how to take responsibility and rebuild emotional safety with your partner. Explore the art of fighting fair to improve communication and connection. Understand the importance of prioritizing your relationship by giving more than you take. Gain actionable insights to rekindle attraction and make meaningful changes in your partnership. This episode is packed with hard-hitting truths and techniques for personal development to save your romance.
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10 snips
Aug 7, 2025 • 27min

The Secret to Getting TENS: How to Get The Hottest Girls in The World

Discover how to attract the most desirable women with actionable strategies and psychological insights. The host emphasizes the importance of training before diving into dating, using military metaphors to illustrate preparation. Learn about leveraging social status, using Instagram to boost attraction, and mastering the art of maintaining control in conversations. The discussion highlights the daily discipline needed to enhance social skills and the transformative journey of personal growth. Get ready to elevate your dating game!
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20 snips
Aug 4, 2025 • 23min

Insecure About Your Looks? Learn Why Confidence Beats Good Looks Every Time

Explore the transformative power of confidence over looks. Discover how societal standards warp self-worth and how self-acceptance can reignite personal charm. Mark shares personal anecdotes that illustrate the appeal of embracing flaws. Learn how humor, especially self-deprecating comedy, can ease interactions and build attraction. The message is clear: being unapologetically yourself is the key to meaningful connections.
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13 snips
Jul 31, 2025 • 24min

My Top 5 Strategies You Can Use TODAY to Improve With Approaching & Attracting Women

Explore actionable dating strategies designed for men eager to enhance their romantic lives. Learn how to break free from passive consumption by actively engaging in social interactions. Discover why dating less attractive partners can serve as a valuable training ground. Embrace discomfort and social pressure to boost confidence in approaching women. Dive deep into personal growth by confronting insecurities and unresolved issues that affect attraction. This is all about turning knowledge into real-life success!

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