The Lavendaire Lifestyle Bonus Episode: Becoming the Artist of Your Own Life: Aileen Xu on Embracing Your True Identity and Creativity
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May 25, 2025 Aileen Xu, host of a popular personal growth podcast, shares her journey from feeling invisible to inspiring millions through creativity. She discusses the struggle of staying true to dreams amid external doubt and the importance of self-acceptance. Aileen reveals how changing her hairstyle symbolized personal growth and identity shifts. Together with media personality Erika Casupanan, they explore the impact of social media metrics on self-worth and the joy of authentic connections with their audience.
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Underestimated Creative Spark
- Aileen felt underestimated as a creative especially by her father who wanted her to take a conventional job.
- This feeling sparked her drive to prove herself by pursuing her artistic dreams despite opposition.
YouTube Built Her Confidence
- Aileen started posting singing covers anonymously on YouTube as a shy teen seeking praise.
- When discovered by friends, it helped her gain confidence and integrate her passions openly.
Praise Shapes Motivation
- Early praise and approval can become addictive when feeling unseen.
- This external validation can shape motivation until internal self-love is developed.