Frugal Friends Podcast What If You’re Not Lazy, What If You’re a Perfectionist? with Monica Packer
Oct 22, 2024
In this engaging conversation, Monica Packer, a podcaster and coach, shares her journey of helping women embrace progress over perfection. She discusses how perfectionism can falsely label us as lazy, offering relatable insights on self-acceptance and the importance of small wins. Monica emphasizes the value of community support, particularly for women, and encourages embracing imperfection in both personal finance and life goals. The discussion also touches on the significance of vulnerability in pursuit of aspirations, creating a rich dialogue on growth and self-compassion.
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Perfectionism and Identity
- Perfectionism is a misplacement of identity, focusing on outcomes or lack thereof.
- It's a spectrum, from overachievers to those who avoid starting due to fear of failure.
Shifting from Perfectionism to Progress
- Recognize the "all or nothing" lie and the price paid for perfectionism: resentment, stagnation, or burnout.
- Shift your focus to progress, embracing small wins over time for sustainable growth.
The "Do Something" Mindset
- Adopt a "do something" mindset, taking small steps towards your goals, even on your worst day.
- Believe in the process of small wins building over time, like compound interest.