Growth Mindset Psychology: The Science of Self-Improvement Life's Infinite Games: How to play by your own rules
Jan 13, 2026
Life is a series of games, and each choice has its stakes. The discussion explores how we often play by societal rules, such as on LinkedIn, and encourages seeking independence over approval. Three modes of engagement are introduced: machine, intelligent, and zen. Listeners learn to focus on authenticity rather than performance, urging them to select their own games. With advice from his profile and reflections on perception, the host motivates listeners to reflect on their true selves.
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Every Moment You're Playing A Game
- Life constantly presents stakes and implicit games that shape our choices and feelings.
- Recognizing which game you're playing reveals misaligned motivations and hidden costs.
LinkedIn As A Multi-Level Game
- Sam uses LinkedIn as a running example to show how platforms create specific games and expectations.
- He recounts changing his profile to reflect playfulness and honesty rather than a braggy resume.
Act Rather Than Announce It
- If you like someone, tell them; if you think you'd be good at something, just do it.
- Focus on being the person you want to be instead of convincing others of your qualities.
