#558: Ann Miura-Ko — The Path from Shyness to World-Class Debater and Investor (Repost)

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Dec 23, 2021

Ann Miura-Ko, a leading venture capitalist and Stanford lecturer, shares her remarkable journey from a shy child to a debate champion and influential investor. She discusses the transformative power of hard work and preparation, highlighting how she overcame public speaking fears. Ann emphasizes empathy in communication and its relevance beyond debating. Reflecting on her experiences in venture capital, she explores ethical leadership and the importance of understanding company dynamics. Listeners gain insights into navigating challenges in entrepreneurship while juggling family and career demands.

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Stage Fright

Ann Miura-Ko's brother used to introduce her on stage due to her shyness.
He would announce her piano performances because she refused to speak.

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Early Introversion

As a child, Ann Miura-Ko primarily spoke Japanese and preferred being alone.
She recalls telling English speakers to leave, revealing her early introversion.

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Negotiations Class

Despite her shyness, a young Ann Miura-Ko chose an adult negotiations class.
She wanted to learn how to "get to yes," enjoying being taken seriously.

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