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Lessons from the Playroom

186. Attachment to Self: The Cornerstone of Healing with Mili Shoemaker

Feb 11, 2025
Mili Shoemaker, a Synergetic Play Therapy supervisor trainer, joins to illuminate the crucial concept of attachment to self. They discuss how this form of attachment diverges from traditional theories and emphasize the importance of mindful awareness in healing. The conversation explores the fluidity of attachment styles and their connection to personal perception and self-regulation. Mili shares personal stories and practical strategies for therapists to cultivate self-attachment, underscoring its transformative power in building secure relationships.
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  • Attachment to self is essential for healing, as it fosters a deeper understanding of one's perceptions and emotional responses.
  • Mindful awareness moments are crucial in therapy for integrating experiences, promoting resilience, and enhancing personal growth and self-regulation.

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Introduction to Synergetic Play Therapy

Synergetic Play Therapy (SPT) offers an innovative approach to working with children, emphasizing the significance of understanding small but impactful details in the therapeutic process. This method integrates insights from various disciplines to enhance a therapist's ability to connect with children effectively. By recognizing the therapeutic journey as a collaborative effort, therapists can work to engage children in meaningful ways that foster trust and safety. Online courses are available for those interested in deepening their understanding of SPT, encouraging practitioners to enhance their skills and approach.

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