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3327: Deal With Anxiety By Making a “Dread” List by Tonya Lester on Resiliency & Taking Action

Sep 20, 2024
In this insightful conversation, Tonya Lester, an expert in anxiety management, introduces her innovative 'dread list' strategy for tackling procrastination. This approach encourages listeners to confront their unresolved tasks head-on, easing the weight of anxiety. Tonya emphasizes the importance of sharing struggles with others for validation and support, revealing how open communication can diminish fears. The discussion also touches on the emotional toll of academic pressures, advocating for expression as a powerful outlet for relief.
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  • Creating a dread list helps individuals confront anxiety by organizing unresolved issues, which reduces the emotional burden and improves mental well-being.
  • Sharing anxieties with supportive friends can significantly diminish their perceived weight, highlighting the importance of community in managing stress.

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The Impact of Avoidance on Anxiety

Avoiding problems can create a significant toll on mental health, as unresolved issues lead to ongoing anxiety and stress. The experience of putting off addressing a notification regarding an incomplete college course illustrates how quickly small issues can escalate into larger anxieties when ignored. Unfinished business generates open loops that deplete one's energy and ability to focus, resulting in physical symptoms such as lack of sleep and increased stress. This cycle of avoidance is not only emotionally draining but also paradoxically consumes more energy than confronting the problems head-on.

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