Renowned physician and author Dr. Gabor Maté explores trauma, addiction, and transformation with Loch Kelly. They discuss the profound connection between awareness, mind, and body. The conversation highlights the significance of seeking help and creating supportive communities for healing. They also delve into self-compassion, recognizing the true nature of the self, and cultivating awareness and compassion.
Recognizing and healing trauma is crucial for overall well-being, addressing both negative experiences and unmet needs from childhood.
Embracing self-compassion and seeking support from friends and resources can facilitate healing and reconnect us with our innate qualities of love and connection.
Deep dives
The Myth of Normal and Healing Trauma
Dr. Gabour Monte discusses his book 'The Myth of Normal', in which he explores trauma, illness, and healing in a toxic culture. He emphasizes that normality in our society is neither healthy nor natural, and that many people are physically and mentally affected by the toxic norms. Dr. Monte highlights the importance of recognizing and healing trauma, which can arise from both negative experiences and unmet needs during childhood. He also explains how trauma can lead to physical and mental illnesses, including addiction. Dr. Monte advocates for a holistic approach to healing, addressing emotional, physical, social, and spiritual needs, and suggests seeking support and community, as well as exploring resources, books, and practices that promote self-awareness and authentic connection.
The Importance of Authenticity and Emotional Healing
Dr. Monte discusses the importance of authenticity in healing and finding meaning in our inner experiences. He emphasizes the need to overcome the fear of seeking help and acknowledges that we were wounded in relationships, so healing also occurs in relationships and community. Dr. Monte suggests asking for help and support from friends, exploring peer counseling programs, and leveraging online resources, such as books and videos, to gain insight and tools for healing. He highlights the significance of emotional awareness, expressing emotions like anger healthily, and restoring the mind-body connection for overall well-being.
Reconnecting with Self and Cultivating Compassion
Dr. Monte and Locke Kelly discuss the significance of reconnecting with our true nature. They touch upon the experience of effortless mindfulness, which allows for non-judgmental observation of oneself and reconnection with wholeness and interbeing. Dr. Monte highlights the innate qualities children are born with, such as unconditional love and connection, and how trauma and societal conditioning can disconnect us from these qualities. They emphasize the importance of self-compassion, recognizing that healing occurs when we embrace and love ourselves as we are. Additionally, they discuss the power of community, peer support, and accessing various resources, like books and practices, to cultivate self-awareness and promote healing.
Overcoming Barriers to Healing and Finding Support
Dr. Monte and Locke Kelly discuss overcoming barriers to healing and finding support. They emphasize the significance of asking for help and acknowledging that healing is not solely an individual task, but one that can be supported by asking friends, seeking therapy or peer counseling, and exploring resources online or in community centers. They encourage embracing the journey of self-discovery, learning from books and videos, and engaging in practices that cultivate self-awareness and self-compassion. Dr. Monte also highlights the need for a more holistic approach in healthcare that recognizes the interconnectedness of mind and body and addresses the emotional aspects of healing.
In this podcast episode, Loch Kelly engages in a deep dialogue with renowned physician and author Dr. Gabor Maté. They explore the intricacies of trauma, addictions and transformation with Effortless Mindfulness and Compassionate Inquiry. Dr. Maté delves into the profound connection between awareness, mind and body. The conversation also highlights the significance of seeking help and creating supportive communities for healing. Throughout, they discuss themes from Dr. Maté's book, "The Myth of Normal," and Loch Kelly's mindful glimpses as a resource. The episode offers valuable insights into cultivating a compassionate approach to healing our everyday trauma in order to embody love and awakening.
At 46:48, Loch leads us through a Mindful Glimpse practice, to guide us with a compassionate inquiry into knowing our true Self as the source of healing.
You can now explore all of Loch Kelly’s practices and teachings on the new Mindful Glimpses app. This innovative meditation and wellness app offers daily micro-meditations, step by step programs, and simple-yet-advanced tools for awakening.
Dr. Gabor Maté is a renowned speaker and bestselling author, and is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress and childhood development. This episode marks the one-year anniversary of Dr. Maté’s recent book: “The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Culture” https://drgabormate.com/book/the-myth…
Loch Kelly is the creator of the Mindful Glimpses app, award winning author, psychotherapist, and meditation teacher known for his unique practical methods that support awakening as the next natural stage of human development. Backed by modern neuroscience and psychology, Loch introduces Effortless Mindfulness, an ancient form of nondual meditation that allows immediate access to our embodied awake nature which arises as calm, clarity, and compassion.