Dr. Kristin Neff, self-compassion expert, reveals how self-compassion serves as a more effective motivator than self-criticism, debunking the myth that it hinders motivation.
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Self-compassion is a more effective motivator than self-criticism and can lead to growth and improvement.
A study with athletes showed that embracing self-compassion, with warmth and encouragement, increased their performance.
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Self-compassion is a more effective motivator than self-criticism
Research shows that self-compassion is a powerful motivator compared to self-criticism. Many people mistakenly believe that being self-compassionate will undermine their motivation and drive. However, self-criticism may lead to long-term negative consequences like a sense of being unloved or unlovable, which can result in depression and decreased faith in oneself. On the other hand, self-compassion allows individuals to view failure as part of the human experience, fostering emotional resilience and providing the opportunity for growth and improvement.
Self-compassion improves performance in athletes
A study conducted with NC double A athletes demonstrated the positive impact of self-compassion on performance improvement. Athletes, who are often hard on themselves, were taught to be kind and supportive instead of engaging in self-criticism. By focusing on improvement rather than shame, their performance increased. This finding underscores the effectiveness of self-compassion as a motivator, challenging the misconception that it undermines motivation. Embracing self-compassion involves acknowledging mistakes as part of the human experience and utilizing warmth, encouragement, and constructive criticism to drive positive change.
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Unlocking Motivation with Self-Compassion: A Fresh Perspective
Self-compassion expert and co-founder of the Center for Mindful Self-Compassion Dr. Kristin Neff is guest hosting this week on Radio Headspace and today she debunks the myth that self-compassion hinders motivation, revealing how it serves as a more effective motivator than self-criticism.
If you'd like to continue learning about self-compassion, check out Dr. Neff's online Mindful Self-Compassion courses here. All Radio Headspace listeners will receive a 15% discount for upcoming courses with the following code: cmscheadspace. This code is good through September 30, 2024.