TED Talks Daily How to co parent as allies, not adversaries | Shaka Senghor and Ebony Roberts
Apr 17, 2020
Shaka Senghor and Ebony Roberts are authors and speakers who share their insightful journey of co-parenting after their breakup. They discuss the emotional complexities of maintaining a positive relationship for their son's sake. Shaka reveals how his childhood experiences shaped his perspective on love, while Ebony emphasizes the importance of trust and curiosity in their parenting approach. Together, they highlight the joy of navigating challenges and fostering their child's exploration, demonstrating that a supportive partnership can thrive even after separation.
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Childhood Trauma
- Shaka Senghor recounts witnessing his father's violence towards his mother.
- This childhood trauma shaped his desire for a different kind of love and relationship.
Relationship and Breakup
- Shaka describes falling in love with Ebony Roberts and their initial strong connection.
- Despite this, they faced challenges similar to his parents and eventually separated.
Choosing Love
- Shaka decided to prioritize his son's well-being over his personal heartbreak.
- He chose love and focused on the positive aspects of Ebony's role as a father, not her missteps as a partner.