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The Core of the Nice Guy
- Nice Guys struggle with a deep-seated belief that they are not inherently okay.
- They seek validation through people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, and prioritizing others' needs over their own.
Not-So-Nice Guys
- Nice Guys aren't always genuinely nice; their actions often stem from ulterior motives, like seeking validation.
- This hidden agenda can manifest as dishonesty and passive-aggressiveness, undermining their relationships.
Drop the Scorecard
- Avoid keeping score in relationships.
- This often leads to resentment and a "victim mentality," which can damage the connection.